We grab drinks and bang, then we proceed to grab drinks and bang a few more times. We maybe stay in and watch a movie and bang all while remaining completely commitment free. We maybe grab some food then bang, maybe you come over one night and we fall asleep without banging. Gradually we don’t always bang when we hangout. I want to bang one night and you are not available so I start to feel that maybe some sort of commitment wouldn’t be so bad. We go out with a group and you aren’t giving me enough attention, so I get it from someone else. Now you start to feel as if some sort of commitment wouldn’t be so bad (it’s important you feel this strictly after I have felt this). You tell me you want commitment, I concur. Slowly my brain has been tricked into a relationship. We bang monogamously.